"Your soulmate is not someone that comes into your life peacefully. It is who comes to make you question things, who changes your reality, somebody that marks a before and after in your life. It is not the human being everyone has idealized, but an ordinary person, who manages to revolutionize your world in a second…"
- Anonymous (via lesbian-a-la-mode)
(Source: scatteredneedles, via psych-facts)
"Be kind to yourself. Stop telling yourself that whatever you are struggling with “should” be easy. If something is hard for you, it is hard for you. There are probably Reasons, though those may just be how you are wired. Acknowledge these things. When you finish something hard, be proud! Celebrate a little.
And really, just stop saying “should” to yourself about your thoughts and feelings in any context. You feel how you feel. The things in your head are the things in your head. You can’t change either directly through sheer force of will. You can only change what you do. Stop beating yourself up for who and what you are right now–it isn’t productive. Focus on moving forward.
- How to keep moving forward, even when your brain hates you. (via mindovermatterzine)
(Source: cynical-as-hell, via xxrolaxx)
"The first draft is just you telling yourself the story."
- TERRY PRATCHETT (via phatalbert)
"Find something you love to do, and you’ll never work a day in your life"
- ― Harvey MacKay (via psych-quotes)
"We can’t win against obsession. They care, we don’t. They win."
- ― Douglas Adams (via psych-quotes)
"Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test."
- Alain de Botton (via iwishicanstoptheclockfromticking)
"If you leave someone at least tell them why, because what’s more painful than being abandoned; is knowing you’re not worth an explanation."
- (via remembertosmileyou)
"Go for someone who is proud to have you."
- Frank Ocean (via psych-quotes)
(Source: psych-facts, via psych-quotes)
"Growing up, I’ve always wondered if any successful people were ever really happy? and what’s pushing them so hard? What has hurt them so much.. that they have to do this to themselves? I wanted to understand, I wanted to embodied myself in the same frame of mind as these people. I wanted success to justify the pain I have faced too."
- (via psychology2010)
(Source: happy--l-ife, via happy--l-ife)
"Life isn’t supposed to be an all or nothing battle between misery and bliss. Life isn’t supposed to be a battle at all. And when it comes to happiness, well, sometimes life is just okay, sometimes it’s comfortable, sometimes wonderful, sometimes boring, sometimes unpleasant. When your day’s not perfect, it’s not a failure or a terrible loss. It’s just another day."
- Barbara Sher (via psych-facts)